40 – 40 – 40

“Old age and treachery will overcome youth and skill.”

If you Google that phrase, there are many variations and many attributions. I believe my Dad got that quote on a t-shirt for his fortieth birthday.

Now I’m turning 40.

It’s nothing to worry about. It’s true that time marches on and certain things get harder with age (deep knee bends and sleeping through the night). But generally 40 is just a number. It’s a good time to reflect on the first 40 years, while looking forward to the next 40.

So I’ve decided that turning 40 is a happy occasion that deserves some attention. I’m counting down by doing 40 things in 40 days before turning 40.

My 40 things are big and small, sometimes meaningful and sometimes silly. They can’t all be grand plans, as I’m working full-time during the 40 days. They have to fit into weeknights and weekends, and not bankrupt me either.

There will be indulgences like a massage and a pedicure. Turning 40 means looking after myself.

There will be nostalgic moments. I’m going to watch movies and read a book from childhood.

There will be a few selfless acts and moments of kindness. Everyone can use a little more kindness in their lives.

And there will be a few things I’ve never done before, or haven’t done in a very long time.

It will be a challenge and an adventure. I can’t wait to get started!

5 thoughts on “40 – 40 – 40

  1. Many of us meekly move through this milestone birthday with little fanfare. Glad that you are embracing this time, and look forward to reading about your “forty days”. Your “OLDEST” cousin – Debbi

  2. Having just hit 40 myself, maybe I’ll join you on some of these items. Our time at Degrassi seems both a long time ago and just yesterday. Age really distorts the time-space continuum.

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